How do you go about telling your wife you are bi?
I am a bi male who is engaged to a beautiful woman that I love
and cherish deeply. Our sex togerther is too vanilla
for me to be completely satisfied and she also has a low sex
drive. Getting her in the mood is a long but worth-it process.
She is quite conservitive when it comes to sex so I am always
timid about bringing up something new involving our sex
together. She found a script to an ad that I placed, before
we ever met, one night while staying at my house while I was
at work. It was an ad looking to meet other bi men and couples.
She was upset about it at first but I explained that at that
time, I was exploring the idea. She also knows about my past
experience with another couple but I didn't say anything
about my doing anything with the guy. She's ok with all of
it and has forgotten about it by now. My problem is that I
want to tell her how I feel and what my fantasies are all involving
her, but am too afraid she will be disgusted or turned off
permantly with me. I don't want to cheat on her, but the desires
are becomeing too overwhelming. If anyone has been through
this situation before, tell me how you handled it. I want
to be very open and honest with her. Any advice on this subject
would be most appreciated.
