Anal sex
Anal sex can be one of the most enjoyable forms of sex for
both partners, but there are a few concerns that must be
addressed and some tricks that will make it a lot more enjoyable.
It's one of the most intense sexual experiences possible
because it takes a lot of trust from a woman and it's
such a different experience from normal sex.
The colon is filled with billions of nasty bacteria all
the time. Even if she has used an enema it still doesn't
clean things up enough to make it safe. If you don't
use a condom the act of anal sex will force bacteria down
the urethra of your penis (you're pee hole) and you
will get a bacterial infection. It's a guarantee,
and depending on the luck of the draw some of the infections
can be very nasty.It has nothing to do with the number of
her previous sexual partners- it's just that the colon
is naturally filled with bacteria, although sheathing
up to protect yourself from an STD is a good idea.
The colon does not provide extra lubrication as the vagina
does. You can never have enough lube for anal sex. Use a water-based
lubricant though, Vaseline and other oil-based lubricants
coat the colon wall and will facilitate infection for her.
Don't get cheap either- go to the nearest love shop
and buy the best lubricant you can. Usually people that
work in a sex shop are more than willing to let you know what
works best. Don't be shy.
There are some lubricants on the market that have a numbing
agent in them and claim to be specially made for anal sex.
Avoid them- anal sex should never hurt, and not knowing
if it hurts or not is a sure way to end up tearing the colon
wall. It will hurt her whole lot more when the numbing agent
wears off and infection sets in.
For beginners, lying on your side spoon style is best, followed
by doggy style with the woman leaning over a large pillow
or a couple of small pillows. For the woman, anal sex is all
about relaxing and the key to relaxation is proper breathing
and letting the tension of out the muscles in the abdomen.Bending
over a pile of pillows allows her to get rid of all the tension
in her midsection and focus on the muscles of her anus. The
position of woman on top is not recommended for beginners
because it's difficult for the woman to relax in this
position.
If you're not in a monogamous relationship, roll a
condom over your finger. The colon is curved, but when relaxed
it will spread out. Thrusting without proper relaxation
(even with a finger) can tear a hole in the colon wall and
cause severe damage. Be very gentle.Start with one finger
and cram as much lubricant as you possibly can into her ass.
Start out very slow, but get her to the point where she can
be finger fucked easily. Then work a second finger into
her ass before attempting to penetrate her with your cock.
In
the spoon position, let her hold the base of your cock and
guide it inside her very slowly. With doggy style, the man
is in more control, go very slow and make sure you can feel
her accept the head of your cock. Do not attempt any in and
out motion until she has fully accepted the intrusion of
your penis in her ass.There are two sphincters in the colon,
an inner one and an outer one. They are the circular muscles
that have to be relaxed to allow your cock full entry. They
aren't small either; together they surround the first
two inches inside her ass. This is called the anal canal,
and after which your cock will proceed to her rectum, a cavity
approximately 5 inches long where she normally stores
shit. If your cock is more than 7 inches long, be very careful.
The colon is not capable of expanding as the vagina is, and
anything longer than 7 inches will simply not fit and likely
tear the wall of the colon.
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Anal beads, vibrators, thin dildos, vibrating eggs (small
ones) are all very good toys to help her get ready. They are
also by themselves very enjoyable toys. As with everything
dealing with her ass, use a lot of lube and disinfect them
afterwards with hydrogen peroxide. Do not put a dildo that
has been in her ass into her pussy, she will get an infection.
By the way, the same goes for your fingers and your cock.
Most women do not practice anal sex on a regular basis because
they've had a bad experience with an impatient or ignorant
lover in the past.
That being said, there are still a lot
of women that love it up the ass and don't feel that sex
is complete without it. If your wife/girlfriend doesn't
like it and won't budge, try finding an experienced
woman online. A woman's ass is the tightest and hottest
place a man can put his cock. It's a wild ride.