reply: ANAL SEX???????????????????????
Very good question and well put.
Anal sex can be very pleasurable but can also be very painful
if the correct prep is not used.
Firstly I would suggest finding some one who would like
anal sex (there are plenty of women who do enjoy it).
Second I would make sure the bowels are clear (enema, laxative
etc a few hours before - enema is the better option)this
should aleviate the uncomfortable packed feeling in the
bowels and stomach areas.
3rd relax the muscles around the anus with light spanking
(works for some), light penetration (finger, small butt
plugs/dildos etc.)
4th lube is not always required as the anus will lube itself
if the partner is aroused enough though not in all cases
- check with partner 1st), if you need to use a lube then always
use a water based gel (KY gel) as this will not effect the
constituion of the latex in the condom.
5th Take it nice, slow and easy when inserting the penis
in to your partner as they won't appreciate you just
ramming into them.
And finally remeber that a fairly strong condom should
be used due to the tightness of the anus there is a high risk
of splitting / ripping the condom.
Be tender and enjoy..
