Pet peeves
When a man you meet for the first time, makes you realize that your much taller than his 58. That in shape is a beer gut.
That after IMing for a while about things which are turnoffs, and what your looking for are so avidly agreed upon yet when first meeting it accounts for nothing.
The listening to and taking less than half as its all you want to extend or take, nixes the mutual and any attraction.
Mutual denotes a win win situation.