What can I say to make him feel better?
I had a 3some the other night with my Bestfriend and her man,
but he was nervous. I understand completely that it was
his first 3some and his first time with me. He is constantly
dwelling on the fact that because he was nervous, I feel
differently towards him. I tried to explain that that couldn't
be farther from the truth. I don't even care that he
couldn't get hard right away, just his hands on my skin
made me quiver. Because he is with my best friend, I need
to find a way to tell him that its not as much as a big deal as
he is making it out to be, but no matter what I say, it upsets
him further. One of my male friends said I should get him
on the phone and just be blunt and then drop the subject...what
do YOU think? I want him to know that I had a great time with
him and that if the situation presented itself, I would
be with him again. I am SO not disappointed in him, if anything
I want more!!!